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 Unrequited Love and Loss: Love Addiction Treatment & Broken Heart Self Recovery Program

“Surviving the Addictive Love Cycle” is an Empowering, Healing, Self Help Program for Women Who Love Too Much

This easy to follow, online program for women, married, single, separated or in an unhealthy relationship, teaches you, in easy steps, how to recover from the emotional pain of:

  • a broken heart / heartbreak
  • a painful break-up
  • love sickness
  • love addiction
  • love withdrawal
  • loving too much
  • unrequited love and loss
  • co-dependency
  • anxious attachment
  • insecurity and jealousy
  • intense rejection
  • narcissistic neglect
  • obsessive love
  • abandonment
  • separation anxiety
  • low self worth
  • low self esteem
  • a dysfunctional relationship
  • sorrow and sadness
  • emotional trauma
“I just wanted to let you know how much your recovery programme is helping me. I cannot put into words how happy I am that I found you. I never even understood until now why I am the way I am and I finally see a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s the first time any one has ever understood what I’m going through; an addiction to love and it makes me feel like I’m not alone and not crazy. With much gratitude and appreciation.” Yolanda

Are you in an on/off relationship whereby you feel stuck and keep returning time and time again to the same negative relationship pattern?

Do you find it difficult to let go of a partner/relationship that you know in your heart isn’t good for you or an emotionally withdrawn partner who doesn’t return your feelings as they seem disengaged or distant?

Do you have an unhealthy emotional dependency, a compulsion or an obsessive need to be with someone even though they don’t return your love and affection?

Do you feel confused and unsure what direction to take with the emotional disengagement and distance of your partner’s love avoidance, withdrawn behaviour or narcissistic  neglect?

This program is for women who

  • Are married, separated, divorced or single in a co-dependent relationship experiencing insecure anxious attachment
  • Have lost their self-esteem, self-worth and self-respect due to being in an unhealthy on/off relationship
  • Want to survive the addictive love cycle to overcome the heartbreak of rejection and lost love
  • Passionately love too much where by being in love feels like being in emotional pain
  • Are experiencing the symptoms of an addiction to love which include:  co-dependency, toxic/inflammable love, intense rejection, insecurity, lovesickness, abandonment, anxious attachment, separation anxiety, possessiveness, jealousy, heartbreak, obsessive love and powerlessness due to an addictive on/off love cycle
  • Lose themselves the moment they fall in love or feel an intense chemistry/attraction to another that becomes an obsessively intense way of loving at the expense of their emotional well being
  • Feel they are unable to leave their partner, and have become trapped in patterns of behaviour which are damaging and destructive to themselves due to love addiction
  • Are caught in a painful on/off relationship whereby love seems impossible, unrequited or not reciprocated
  • Feel abandoned, unwanted, rejected and excluded due to a betrayal, infidelity or being with someone who can not commit to the relationship yet can’t find the courage to leave
  • Feel they love too much and experience powerlessness and heartache due to being with an avoidant partner who is emotionally withdrawn or disengaged
  • Become most unlike themselves when they desire another person and therefore lose their own identity
  • Are married or in a relationship who are happy and fulfilled but need to strengthen their boundaries and feel more positive, secure and learn to love in a healthier way
  • In same sex relationships who feel rejected and alone
  • Experience narcissistic abuse – who return time and time again to damaging and neglectful unhealthy relationships
  • Have had a painful breakup and need to recover and heal

Turn the end of a relationship in to a whole new chapter and start healing now

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Women with Love addiction problem
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This program will help you heal a broken heart, an addiction to romantic love, an impossible, passionate desire and the debilitating symptoms of lost love so you can live entirely and wholeheartedly in alignment with your own authenticity and help you to fabricate emotional self reliance and live the passionate life you truly deserve. 

Give yourself the gift of empowerment, take charge of your life & relationships that give you mutual love and emotional connection..

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“I thank you so profoundly for your beautiful and compassionate words throughout your Recovery Program, I will treasure them and use them as my source of strength to carry through this shattering time, your soothing voice in the guided journeys has brought me much peace and validation. My warmest wishes and gratitude to you.” Tess
“If you want the world to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice (self) compassion” The Dalai Lama
“I’m finally free thanks to Helen’s recovery program, I used to be so jealous and insecure and the more my partner rejected me the more I felt powerless and worthless. We are now great together, and if anything she can’t believe just how much more relaxed I am. I’ve also been accepted for a managerial position and I’m finally doing the work I want to do after months of feeling just awful in myself.” Teresa
“If there is any possible consolation in the tragedy of losing someone we love very much, it is the necessary hope that perhaps it was for the best.” Paulo Coelho

Loving too much is not a love story…

Helen Mia Harris - Relationship Counsellor & Therapist

Helen Mia Harris – MNCS (Accredited) BACP Member.
Expert Love Addiction & Co-Dependency Specialist, Marriage Coach, Couples Counsellor, Writer, Speaker, Presenter & Relationship Therapist for both couples and individuals.

Creator of the “Surviving the Love Addiction Cycle Program”

“The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it” Nicholas Sparks
“It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a ‘real’ relationship with them.” Anthony Storr
“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any”. Alice Walker

“I truly believe that unrequited love and loss is the most infinite burden of a broken heart, perhaps one of the most profound experiences we can ever encounter.

Our love can seem impossible if we haven’t been “chosen” by the beloved. We are left with such a profound sense of sorrow; feeling unwanted, unloved, rejected, abandoned, rebuffed, cast out, excluded – desperately struggling to keep everything that we are from falling apart.

It is as if the burning passion to be with this “one” person is all that exists as our love is thwarted. But what I am here to say is this…there is hope!

Why I am passionate about this therapeutic and healing program

My full time professional life and career is working with the love relationship and all its challenges. I chose to specialise in the love relationship as I can see “clearly”; we all long for and want a “mutual emotional connection” and to feel appreciated by our loved one.

For over 25 years I have worked as a counsellor, a relationship and couples therapist and have been working in hospitals, children’s homes, Marie Curie, medical centres, women’s prisons and in private practice as well as running workshops and presentations on unrequited love and loss, emotional connection in the couple relationship.

However the most profound experience and the foundation I had in developing this life affirming  program was my own personal experience in my early 30s.

I experienced first hand, this affliction of the heart when we love too much and the grief like symptoms of loss and emotional trauma that came with it. Throughout that time I wrote journals to make sense of the overwhelming roller coaster of emotions, which has now become the foundation of the workbook, 6 eBooks and the entire program.

Having been through this has helped me to understand in every way, that despite all of my training and experience, anyone could suffer from an addiction to love, love withdrawal, and the heartbreak, loss and intense grief that goes with it.

I chose to share this personal story as a way to show you that there is a way through this sadness, and in this program, I reveal how I recovered and the step-by-step process you need to follow to turn your life around and how to gain control over self defeating and damaging thoughts and behaviours.

My Surviving the Addictive Love Cycle Program has been specifically designed to guide you through this emotionally painful time and find a way forward, turning this raw experience of loss into a life-changing journey of personal growth and self-development.

You will discover that the heartache and lovesickness you’re experiencing is not the end, but instead just the beginning. Indeed, you will learn that this is a fertile time for you to create a whole new life for yourself; a better life that no one will ever be able to take away from you again.”

With much love

Helen x

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I am confident that this program will help you to find your way past the devastating experience of lost love and sadness.

Provided you take the time to go through the therapeutic workbook and 6 eBooks on how to survive a broken heart, love withdrawal following heartbreak, which is woven around my own personal story and all the videos and guided journeys to alleviate anxiety symptoms.

If you have done this and you are still unhappy, I will give you your money back with no questions asked.