Is Divorce the Only Way Out?
Separation and divorce should be the absolute last resort, because it can be one of the most distressing experiences that anyone can ever go through, not to mention the self-blame, personal failure, responsibility and guilt that can result from it, particularly if it’s not a mutual decision.
Yet while many couples may feel as though divorce is the only option, they fail to adequately explore the reasons why the marriage has failed in the first place.
And that’s the key point.
Isn’t it worth doing everything you can to understand the REASONS that lie behind your failing marriage, so you can repair it, find a solution to the problems you share, and finally start enjoying a happy, mutually loving and respectful marriage? Furthermore, these relationship issues may be a pattern in your life that will keep re-appearing if it’s not recognised, understood and finally overcome.
Bespoke Marriage Counselling & Relationship Therapy Sessions
Helen’s bespoke marriage counselling and relationship therapy sessions will help you discover what is possible, providing you with the practical strategies to move forward and understand the underlying issues that are hindering communication, connection and closeness.
Once you understand each other’s wants and needs properly, both of you will feel validated and acknowledged, and it’s this that will enable you to rebuild the secure attachment bond that is the foundation of any successful and loving relationship.
And in as little as three to four 90-minute sessions, I can assure you that you will notice a real, tangible difference in your marriage.
“We were on the verge of breaking up after a 12 year marriage. Helen gave us the tools to understand each other. We now know that we were emotionally disconnected and didn’t listen or respect one another. Now we are much closer and happier; even the passion and intimacy has returned! We are eternally grateful for your help.” — Carol and Andrew, London
“A truly uplifting and insightful experience! Helen gets right to the heart of things in her marriage breakthrough sessions.” — Elizabeth, London
“Helen offers insightful strategies that gave us the solution to move forward in our marriage and rebuild a secure emotional connection, even though our relationship was fraught with problems” — Adrian, Kent
How Helen Mia Harris’ Secure Attachment Relationship and Couples Counselling Will Help You
With more than 25 years’ experience as a marriage coach, relationship counsellor, and couples therapist, Helen Mia Harris’ expertise lies in helping couples to re-examine the way they “handle” their problems, rather than focusing on the problems themselves.
Typically, both parties will believe that they are right, and the other is wrong, which subsequently leads to continued and repetitive arguments, followed by a lack of communication, distancing, and finally, a breakdown of the marriage.
During these sessions, marriage coach and expert relationship counsellor Helen Mia Harris encourages both parties to speak openly, and most importantly, to hear each other’s voice and version of events, possibly for the first time. As a result, you will be finally be able to see the true nature of the relationship, the “dynamics” at work, and what might be hindering closeness and intimacy.
By allowing both parties to be heard and understood, Helen opens the door to real and honest communication, enabling couples to finally end the vicious cycle of anger, bitterness, silence, conflict, indifference and resentment that plagues so many marriages, and instead build a path towards healthy communication, deeper connection, empathy, respect, trust, and a mutually loving, happy relationship.
To make an appointment for your Couples Counselling Session, call Helen on 01732 617344 or email firstname.lastname@example.org