Are You The Kind of Person Who Loves Too Much? Share this page: Are You The Kind of Person Who Loves Too Much? - Take Helen's Quick Love Quiz: Select Yes for any of the following statements which you can relate to. Do you start to panic if a new potential partner does not call, text, or email immediately after the first meeting? Yes Do you feel anxious in a relationship for fear of abandonment and rejection? Yes Do you avoid relationships at all costs for fear of becoming too vulnerable and loving too much? Yes Intrusive Thinking - you can't stop daydreaming about the beloved reflecting 'only' on the romantic, happy times, no matter how painful it might be in reality. Yes An intense aching in the heart when you believe you'll never be with the beloved or that mutual love seems impossible Yes A chronic fear of rejection and unsettling shyness in the presence of the beloved Yes If you don't hear from a new partner for a day, do you worry that they're not interested? Yes Do you find yourself "obsessively" changing your appearance to one you "think" your partner likes, in order for him or her to like/want you more? Yes When you begin seeing someone, do you quickly give up your own routine, interests and social life and adopt theirs? Yes If so, is there a consuming preoccupation of "thinking" about the significant other as if you can’t get them out of your mind? Yes Do you confuse passionate intensity for love and intimacy? (drama focused relationships) Yes Do you become distressed, worried or anxious when separated from your partner and unable to make contact by phone, email or text? Yes Does the distress and anxiety ease when contact with the partner has been made? Yes Do you experience negative thoughts, erratic, agitated behaviour, or suspicious thoughts if your partner is late home or out of contact? Yes Do you feel a sense of worthlessness and emptiness if you are not in a relationship? Yes Do you confuse sexual attraction and desire with love? Yes Do you find yourself checking mobile devices, emails etc., because you fear your partner isn’t being honest with you? Yes Do you adapt an outer facade of "appearing to be confident and composed" to conceal internal fragmentation? Yes Do you ever try to "mask" how strongly you feel about your partner by acting casually or aloof, in the hope that they will respond positively and reciprocate your love? Yes Do you have a compulsive need to be in a relationship to make make you feel whole and complete? Yes Do you ever fear that your partner will not come home again, despite having no prior argument or dispute? Yes Do you have a driven frantic need to know that your partner feels exactly the same intensity as you do? Yes Do you have an intense desire to know that you are loved and wanted even though your relationship is emotionally secure? Yes Are you ever reluctant to go to sleep - or are unable to do so - without being near your partner, hearing from them, or being reassured of their commitment to the relationship? Yes Email Name Time's up By Helen Mia Harris|November 17th, 2017|Comments Off on Are You The Kind of Person Who Loves Too Much? Share This Story, Choose Your Platform! FacebookTwitterLinkedInRedditTumblrEmail